Labels should only stick to items for sale , NOT people !

(Song of the Hour: Stereotype by 'D' from O.S.O Family Entertainment)

Why is it that most people in this fccked up(at times)world, look at someone , and they have an instant stereotypical label for them ? Honestly , I think it's stupid . I don't just look at someone(thinking they're a book) & then come up with some stupid stereotype category shelf to put you in , that makes me like some messed up librarian or something . Honestly get to know the real person , at that point in time , not the real person who they were then . Please constantly update your mind like a computer updates its system(<--- Nerd). Like lately , ever since I've met ________ , people have seriously been getting on my headd . Shitt ; I am being constantly vexed by people being SOOPER protective of me . Like all my kuya's & atehh's . All I've heard was that he isn't a good guy , how he's just a hit it & book it kinda guy , how he's a player , how he just wants to get some , how he's just a sweet talker to get what he wants , just so much degrading shitt . It's like constantly they're looking for every bad aspect of him to use to break anyone down . But the thing that they're missing is the good . Sometimes people only pay attention to the worst in people (stereotypicalbitchess) , that they forget that everyone has not only a bad side , but a good side (badprejudgement). They have trained themselves like how dogs are trained , when his name comes up it's automatically a bad thought . It's such a bad prejudgement . I wish that people could just sit & think and look at the good side in people for once , cause there might be a chance that it'll tip the scales and out weigh the bad things . I mean people change , it's not impossible for people to change , like I was talking to my Kuya Aaron about this , and you know what he told me ?: "People can change , it's not impossible for people to change , I mean look at me , I changed for her , because of her , I dropped the gang banging and all that bad stuff , and hanging out with the wrong people and now I hangout with the right people , because of her ." And you know , I don't like changing people , but if it's for the better , I will do it . Like honestly I think he is changing / he's changed . Highschool is full of change , its a chapter in our lives where we figure out who we really are , or at least work toward who we are to be . I personally think that he can change if he is still like that , how people describe him to me , I'm sure he can change for the better , because in every bad person , there is a good side , or else there wouldn't be balance , basic yin & yang , a subject I slowly learned through sensei's , ancestors' , family , friends , lovers , and life . I know where they're coming from , I really do , but it's like yeahh they don't want me to get hurt & all , but no one really knows when they will get hurt only the person causing the pain does . But also , I ask you , what is love without it's risks ? If I don't take that risk of being with somebody , how will I ever know if it could've meant more than just a relationship ? Honestly , and if I do get hurt , well fuckk , that's gunna happen in EVERY relationship anyway . And at least I know the truth afterwards , if it was really meant to be or just some relationship . And to all my kuya's & atehhs telling me he's a bad guy ,
Well sorry, Good Girls just can't stay away from Bad Guy's (;